Category Archives: Confessions

Wilted Orchids, Deep Roots a.k.a. How to Plan for a Funeral

How do you decorate for a party you never wanted to attend? How do you fill a room with cheer when no cheer can possibly be found? “What would he want?” we asked ourselves over and over again, as if … Continue reading

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Sex: Bi-Curious, aka I’m Thinking About Sleeping with Men

I’m like that girl in college who gets bored and wants to make out with girls at a party but she can’t really get down when it comes to touching another woman’s vagina. I’m like that; but with penises. It … Continue reading

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Navigating Sex After Grief

It’s been almost a year since DE and I broke up, a year full of horrible tragedy, grief and heartbreak. A year of change, upheaval and instability. A year in which I have not had sex. Had not. A year … Continue reading

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Sexting: I Ecourage It!

I remember the first time I tried sexting. It was awkward and I wasn’t sure if I was doing it right. Sending dirty pictures of me and describing what dirty things I wanted to do to my boyfriend (at the … Continue reading

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Public Sex With My Plus-Size Body

Ever since my creative sexual imagination began, I have not been able to stop fantasizing about having sex in any place at any time.  I would fantasize about having sex on a hammock swinging side to side, on the beach … Continue reading

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