Cheers to Poppo, December 1, 1921 – February 23, 2013

This weekend, the sun set on my beloved grandfather, a.k.a. Poppo. He was an amazing artist, dancer and gin drinker with whom I was honored to share 30 birthdays.

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He was 92 years young when he passed and he sang and danced until the end. I held his hand for a week, sending oh so much love his way and getting even more love in return.

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This is the third family member I’ve watched die in 18 months. Each one went in his own way and Poppo chose to go in his living room, overlooking a gorgeous sunset, surrounded by family.

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Every day, at 5pm, Poppo and Gramma had a drink. Gramma had her vodka and Poppo had his Beefeater gin with one ice cube, two olives (three if I was there to eat one) and a cocktail onion, and so at 5pm on the day he died, we all gathered and had a drink in his honor.

If you get a chance at 5pm some night, do the same.

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About Queerie Bradshaw

A sexpert with a law degree, Lauren Marie Fleming (a.k.a. Queerie Bradshaw) is a writer, speaker and consultant specializing in the legal and social issues surrounding sex, sexuality, gender and gender identity. As a writing teacher and editor-in-chief of the multi-author blog QueerieBradshaw.com, Lauren encourages others to tell their intimate stories as a way to remove social stigmas. Lauren is currently finishing up the final chapters of her memoir, based on her popular sex blog for Curve Magazine. She also write "Lascivious" for VICE Magazine, a column on sex and porn from a queer perspective -- with a legal twist. Always up for a chat, Lauren can be found on Twitter at @QueerieBradshaw and encourages people to say hi.
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