Sex: Toe Sucking, aka My Experiences with Foot Fetishists

I’ve come across a couple of men in my dating life that have a fetish for sucking on toes. I didn’t understand the fascination of it but I was open to try it. I was a little reserved because I’m very private about my feet. I don’t have the prettiest toes, my nails are always too long and I get very dry heals. It runs in my family and it’s a major bitch trying to keep up with them making sure they look good. Lucky for both men I was dating at the time, I was on a consistent roll of going to the nail salon and getting expensive pedicures with soothing oils and foot massages to keep my feet Cinderella ready.

The first time it happened was during a heavy make-out session in my bedroom with a nice man named Junn. We were in the middle of touching each other all over and I felt his lips slowly go down over my knee and onto the top of my foot. Before I knew it, he starts sucking on my big toe and my reaction was, “Whoa, whoa, whoa! What are you doing?!” He looked surprised and asked if it was ok for him to keep sucking on my toe. Taken aback and trying to be nice about it, I stuttered on my words and said it was ok.

via: http://vanyaland.blogspot.com/2010/01/talking-jersey-shore-with-vh1s-frank.html

 

It didn’t really do anything for me. It didn’t turn me on but it didn’t gross me out or turn me off either. I was letting him do it because I could clearly see it was huge turn on for him. It felt like so little effort on my part was being done to get him aroused. I figured this was easy and I didn’t have to do much. But the more he did it, the more time he spent down there; sometimes to the point where I was bored and tired of waiting for us to do something else. I soon started restricting him, only letting him do it for a few minutes and only to my right foot. And because he really enjoyed doing it, he followed every restriction. If he wanted more, he would politely ask. I started to feel a little powerful at that point, knowing that I had this kind of control over him. But I also liked being the submissive one, someone telling me what to do and how to do it, and Junn was nowhere near that character. I wanted equal play, but I wasn’t getting it.

A couple months after Junn and I mutually decided not to see each other anymore, I went on-line to the dating website Plenty of Fish. There, I met a man named Michael. He winked at me and I winked at him. A few emails later, we traded phone numbers and soon were getting to know each other through phone conversations. Days into our phone dates, I got a dirty text message from him, which I fully enjoyed. There’s nothing sexier than being turned on by small creative abbreviated dirty words while at work or out with friends. One night, we were enjoying sexting (side note: I advise never photographing your face because you never know who might come across these texts, if your partner wants to sext, send body parts of boobs, va-jay-jays, penis, ass, etc. but never of your face unless you’re absolutely sure they’re not getting out there), and he asked for a photo of my foot. I was a little confused at first but quickly realizing he has a foot fetish, so I complied and sent one over. He then asks for a close-up photo of my toes, I complied again and sent it. About ten minutes go by and I don’t hear from him so I send a short “r u there?” text. He replies by asking if he can suck on my toes while he jacks off on our first date. I was like……. “Huh?”

Actual photo of my toes I sent Michael. Who wouldn’t want to jack off to these beauties?!

 

Not wanting to be in a casual relationship where the fetish is stronger than my sexual pleasure, I decided to end it with Michael. He never got to suck on my toes, although I was a little flattered they turned him on so much. Because I’d had two experiences with men who loved sucking on my toes, I did a little research to see where this type of fetish comes from and why some people desire it. I found out that a “neurologist proposed foot fetishism is caused by the feet and the genitals occupying adjacent areas of the somatosensory cortex, possibly entailing some neural crosstalk between the two.” Which translates to me that the feet and genital nerves in our brain are somewhat crossed or share a path and when they’re really close to each other, feet just look so damn sexy. Well, mine aren’t certainly aware of each other, otherwise I’d be licking and sucking on toes like a cold delicious popsicle on a hot summer day in the desert, but that would explain the guys I slept with.

This makes me wonder about all other fetishes there are. If someone has an elbow fetish, does that mean that the elbow and genitals nerves are close to each other and crossing paths? What’s your fetish? What common part of the human body, other than the genital, has turned you on from every partner you’ve had?

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8 Responses to Sex: Toe Sucking, aka My Experiences with Foot Fetishists

  1. Diane Ferguson says:

    It’s been my experience lately that this is a very common fetish or I may encourage rhese contacts as my profile picture is a pair of sexy heels…

  2. mark says:

    love to suck them and like toys up my ass love toes

    • Well thank you for sharing that.

      • shane says:

        it looks reveiling and sexy when u see someones bare soles, like up on a chair or table, its because they look long and curvy although sizes obviously differ, soles are much longer than the palm of the hands so I like soles more!, what I like the most is

        seeing bare soles with the person in jeans, it really turns me on they look so naked, I like any part of the foot with or without jeans, check out some pics online of feet or soles in jeans and you might see what I mean.

  3. mark knake says:

    Feet toes are the world in which we walk..that’s beautiful

  4. shane says:

    it looks reveiling and sexy when u see someones bare soles, like up on a chair or table, its because they look long and curvy although sizes obviously differ, soles are much longer than the palm of the hands so I like soles more!, what I like the most is

    seeing bare soles with the person in jeans, it really turns me on they look so naked, I like any part of the foot with or without jeans, check out some pics online of feet or soles in jeans and you might see what I mean.

  5. david campbell says:

    i love a womans feet. I love them all over me and in my mouth.bare with hose what ever,just give them to me, i got this. :)

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