Question of the Day: What’s Your Favorite Way to Masturbate? #SexQOTD

Leading up to my keynote panel at Catalyst Con East – where I will be talking about sparking conversations in sexuality – I’m going to try to start some sex conversations here on the blog and on Twitter. To learn more about this project, check out the original post.

This is Day 5. Check out the rest of the days here on the blog or use the hashtag #SexQOTD on Twitter.

Question of the Day: What’s Your Favorite Way to Masturbate?

For me, it depends on the day and my cycle. When I’m ovulating, I want penetration, so I bust out a toy, but usually I’m just a clitoral fan. I use my hand, rarely a vibrator and I like to be lying on my back usually. But I think my favorite thing to do, the thing that really gets me off, is to lie on my stomach and rub something against my clit, sometimes imagining that I’m strapping it on, usually imagining that Alex is inside of me from behind. What about you? What gets you off when you’re all alone?

Let’s talk! Leave your answer to this QOTD here or tweet it to me @QueerieBradshaw.

About Queerie Bradshaw

Lauren Marie Fleming is a writer, speaker and motivator known for her intimate, informative and often hilarious look at sex, relationships and body-image. Lauren runs the critically-acclaimed blog, writes for major news sources including VICE, Nerve, Huffington Post and Curve, and is the author of her memoir Losing It: My Life as a Sex Blogger. In 2013, Lauren founded Frisky Feminist Press ( as a way to enhance conversations about sexuality through educational guides, online classes and entertaining publications. A law school graduate, Lauren has spoken all over the United States and is internationally recognized for her dynamic, engaging style. In everything she does, Lauren’s goal is to educate, remove stigmas and encourage people to achieve their desires.
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2 Responses to Question of the Day: What’s Your Favorite Way to Masturbate? #SexQOTD

  1. Sara says:

    On my back. Legs spread and bent at the knee. Vibrator on my clit. Penetration is optional.

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